girl same i broke up with him 6 months pp it was sooo fucking hard😭 i literally cant believe my son is 1 now it flew by so fast. me annd him have been having so much fun together just the two of us since his dads gone. we have been soo much happier. its soo many days im drowning in shit to do and no one here to help me. those short times i miss my bd & regret breaking up. but i wish i broke up woth him sooner tbh. i wish i left when i was pregnant lol. he really stressed me out mentally and emotionally he just ended up ignoring me completely and it stunted my postpartum healing ❤️🩹 i noticed how rapidly my body started physically healing as soon as he was gone im back to my pre pregnancy weight too my face has slimmed down like im the HOTTTEST i have ever been in my life girl. heartbreak ends now babe xx
My husband and I had been together for 17 years before we had our son and we made a promise before he was born that whatever happened we would not divorce for the first 2 years of our child. This was the best thing we did as if it wasn't for that I think we would have divorced months ago. Our son is now 14 months and we are starting to see the light at the end of the tunnel and we are looking at each other as a couple again. Good luck ❤️
Can I ask whether things were bad before the baby? Or just bad now? Post baby is the toughest thing in the world. Lack of sleep, enormous life and perspective adjustment and huge change in priorities. I’m not saying your break up isn’t valid. But are you sure it’s what you both want?