I’m struggling with motherhood

I’m a Christ follower, SAHM to two toddlers. I am struggling with rage, screaming and even liking/loving my oldest son. There’s so much shame in the Christian community to discuss this topic. Has this happened to anyone else? What would your encouragement/advice be?

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Hey! I hear you and I understand that frustration is often an unstatement when it comes to raising kids. Just know that this season of life is only a season. Try to take some pressure off of yourself. When do you find the rage coming out most often?

Figuring out your triggers and why. Not responding when they do something that upsets you right away, take a few seconds to breathe and then respond so you can do so rationally. Putting them somewhere safe and just walking away when you need to. Replacing social media with Bible podcast like pray.com. Making sure you and them have properly ate, hydrated and rested so everyone is functioning properly. Establishing a routine you guys can follow most days. Encouraging play between them two without you and activities that require minimal assistance so you can rest. Instilling quiet time if they are no longer doing nap time. Prayers! Motherhood is tough especially with 2 close in age Jesus really is the only thing that gives you the strength these other tips can and will fail but they for sure help 💕

First, make sure you’re taking care of yourself and having personal time. Good sleep, healthy diet and personal time. Second I would have your hormones checked, it can be hormonal from your last birth (yes it can last that long) Third, prayer!! The feelings and thoughts you’re grappling with are def an attack from the enemy on your relationship with your kids and on your motherhood. Pray concerning your days, your kids, their behavior, your patience and ask God for grace!

Dear sister in Christ, You're not alone. Many mothers, including Christian moms, struggle with feelings of rage, frustration, and emotional overwhelm. It's essential to acknowledge these emotions and seek support. *You're not a bad mom or a bad Christian.* _Common struggles:_ 1. Sleep deprivation 2. Toddler tantrums 3. Hormonal changes 4. Social isolation 5. Unrealistic expectations _Christian community silence:_ 1. Fear of judgment 2. Shame and guilt 3. Misinterpretation of biblical teachings (e.g., "Love is patient...") 4. Lack of open discussion *Break the silence. Seek help.* 1. Confide in: - Your husband - A trusted friend - A pastor or counselor - Online support groups (e.g., Christian Mommy Community) 2. Professional help: - Therapist or counselor - Postpartum depression/anxiety screening - Anger management classes 3. Self-care: - Rest and relaxation - Exercise - Hobbies - Prayer and meditation

1.⁠ ⁠Psalm 42:11 - "Why, my soul, are you downcast?" 2.⁠ ⁠Matthew 11:28-30 - "Come to me, all you who are weary..." 3.⁠ ⁠2 Corinthians 12:9-10 - "My power is made perfect in weakness."

Loving this post and thread so much! This is what faith looks like: not being perfect but knowing that God and community can help with struggles in our daily walks. Just wanted to provide encouragement and thank you for your vulnerability 🤗