Silent treatment

What??? Why would he do that?? Does he just ignore you when you ask why he’s doing it?

This is honestly torture . I would rather be screamed at than silent treatment. I would personally show him the door … loudly x

Well that's psychological abuse

It's a form of emotional abuse- you should tell him that. It's extremely psychologically damaging to treat someone like they're so insignificant they are invisible.

Do you want to leave him? x

I don't want to leave him here just being a stubborn cunt but this is the second time he's done this he did it last week but this week , I just feel like shit , I just get ignored but the think is he was completely in the wrong but with him no one can tell him anything and he don't care.

What kind of grown man gives there partner the silent treatment... does he do this often?? This is certainly not what someone does in a healthy relationship...xxx

This is the second time he's done this iv been with him for 7 years and we moved out together in December

I don't see why we can't just talk it out we are adults,this is toucher and I feel so sad

I really think it needs to stop, needs a frank conversation or it will ruin your mental health which isn't good for you or your baby

Agree with Georgie. You need to talk about it with him and try and put a stop to it. It won’t get any better in future. If he won’t listen, I’d leave x

This is 100% abuse My partner does this to me (not for as long) but it was my SIL who pointed out it was abuse as her husband (my OH brother) does it to her too So it’s a learned behaviour on their part but I’d never thought of it as abusive before Last time he tried to do it I told him what he is doing is a form of abuse and if he does it again I’m off He hasn’t done it again

Thank you all , tonight I finally got though to him he thought I was cheating on him since I was angry the other night and stayed out till 1.30 am , I did tell him wete I was going

Please just remember that there is no excuse for this behaviour whether he thought you were cheating or not this should have been a conversation the following morning, not after 4 days of silence

Exactly there is no justification for it, you must put yourself and your baby first and nothing he can say can justify him treating you that way. I hope you've set some new boundaries down going forward for your own wellbeing ❤️

He would never just talk to me about things I always have to talk first ,now he's hugging and kissing our child but not giving me any affection on purpose, I was literally holding our sun in my arms and he keeps on coming over and kissing and hugging and stroking his face. I don't see why he needs to do that when he's in my arms. I think he's trying to wind me up

Only you can decide what to do Take it, leave it or change it are your options