Someone you’re romantically interested has NO friends
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I'm a loner, I have one friend. But for many years I went about life with acquaintances never really getting close to anyone. It's kind of a red flag. If they don't have friends they are a different kind of special let me tell you. Lol Speaking from personal experience.
It depends? Have they never had friends? Like ever? Did they just have a falling out with someone? Idk, not a fan of the red flag/green flag label maybe cause I’m a red flag queen, but hey I must be worth it cause I’m married lol.
That's a red flag. If you have zero friends.... That means they don't engage in sports- I would think they are criminals or psychopaths. Or a online stream gamer or something.
Means he’s a homebody/introvert stays home a lot/only works, doesn’t have any outside interests or hobbies coz if he did he would’ve made friends from there. No friends from high school? College/uni, work? Huge red flag for me. Because it means if I date him he’s probably not even wanna go out anywhere and stay home if he’s an introvert and I can’t date an introvert - ambivert, yes. Someone who’s 50/50 but able to be social when needed. Not true homebody/introvert who only has online friends lol. And i don’t want someone who relies 100% of his happiness on me because that usually = clingy and I can’t do clingy.
100% red flag. And strange af. I’ve been there before and would never again
@Raven not engaging in sports is a dream to some of us lol
None at all? Maybe not a bestie but no one at all they talk to? A little weird..I get being introverted but even introverts have friends.
You can make new couple friends while dating. Its ok to not have friends at all because too many people are fake. Not everyone wants to tolerate fake conversations and relationships. It doesnt mean he will not go out with you. People are in denial if they think everyone they call a friend is a ride and die. Most of them will delete you off and never look back. If hes a great conversationalist and engages in similar interests or compromises... whats the issue here?
My husband has no friends. He’s just friends with all my friends 🤷🏻♀️ In the almost 9 years we’ve been together, he’s hung out with like, 2 dudes from work once.
Having no friends and having too many friends are both red flags bc what do you mean… I’ve been with people also with the right number of friends but the people be trash. I don’t know if any of it is really a red flag until you meet the people they “know”
For me that would be a red flag. I’m a very social person.
My ex had literally 1 friend who was an alcoholic and took drugs and he turned out to be a narcissist and majorly controlling, I also hear rumours that hes now gay! X
For those who say red flag, is it still a red flag if he doesn't have friends but is really close to his siblings or cousins?
@Kylie meh I guess not I forgot about big families But for this hypothetical scenario they don’t fuck with relatives either. 🤣
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I would say it depends : if he is very close to his family, like best friend are his brother or cousin, it isn’t a red flag. If he has a good reason : 1 best friend for long who betrayed him for example and now he feels like he can’t find again the same relationship ? Also depends on his age and backstory ! I mean my father is a piece of shit and he had friends 😂 so well … And my sister didn’t had real friends for quite a time, because she has trust issues because of my father and introvert. Now it is getting better but she is 20 and she is absolutely not a red flag ! And ofc she is very close to me and my brothers, so we are like her best friends 🥰
Technically my oh doesn’t have friends. The ones he does live four hours away and he slowly stopped seeing them when my son was born. He is a sociable person and is friendly with people from work (one feeds our cats). He just hates going out and doesn’t have the energy for it. I think some men do get less social as they get older.
I feel like I only have acquaintances so I don't think it'd be a red flag to me but I prefer to date people with friends so I can befriend their friends wife's and gfs