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I simply change with the person, I know to watch them and never leave my kids around them everything that was said about my son when I was pregnant I remember VIVIDLY and I hold a lot of grudges unfortunately it hurt my feelings bad and I would never ever forget
I literally don’t deal with it we just isolate ourselves and focus on our little family until everyone in our lives just realize they will eventually have to get with the program it’s a really hard topic but for me and my man that’s how we been going about it to keep our peace and we just stay away from the people who don’t accept our relationship because if they can’t accept or respect our relationship then they won’t respect our kids and it’s starts with our kids because even though they are racist they want to be around our kids but eventually they will have to respect the fact they are mixed and that they are still their blood as well