At that point just hope on fb marketplace and resale it then put the money in the kids savings account. I’ve decided that this year no big gifts just clothes in bigger sizes for next year or money to go into her saving account this is for either college or a car or even a down payment on a house whichever she chooses when she’s old enough
@Sophie @Bryar thank you both for advice and ideas. They're such a pain as everyone else is fine with our request, if my mum and dad gets them a big gift they keep it at theirs to play with but MIL and SIL don't have that option as MIL only has a room as she rents in London and SIL is abroad. We've said about their savings accounts and for putting money in them but they just want to buy, buy, buy and fill our home up with stuff the girls don't need. As soon as we get rid of stuff we end up starting another bag for donations. MIL will said the other week she won't get them anything until Christmas but then turns up the next time, and the next time with something else for them because it was Halloween.
I think you’ve already done what you can, and if they buy something against your wishes you’ll have to ask them to return it, donate it, or store it until you have a bigger place