Idk what to do please help!!

Also I’m pretty sure the carrier bags were our carrier bags as we shop at Aldi and it was wrapped in two Aldi bags

Men are so sloppy. If he won’t admit anything, there should at least be a story that makes sense. I think either way his explanation will tell it all. Because what other reason could he need to hide that? Did he kill her?! 😂

@Monét no literally! 😂 That’s the part that makes no sense!! Like why hide in TWO bags…like if he found it surely it wouldn’t be a) wrapped away and b) he would have returned it wherever he found it or something? Or at least mentioned it

Yeah I’m sorry 😞

Ugh what an asshole 😔 My advice is to stand in what you know and don’t let him manipulate you, gaslight, or deflect. The only thing he’s allowed to do is tell you the truth. You’re going to have to decide what you want to do and stand firm in the decision. Ugh this hurts just to read! I’m sorry. So many hugs to you.

Are you able to do some more digging before you confront him? I know you don't have her first name but you have the initial and middle name and last name. Maybe try posting it somewhere on social media as lost and found and see if anyone claims them without your partner seeing what you're doing? If you know he's going to lie give it abit more time and try doing some digging xx

If that isn’t proof of something suspicious don’t know what is! I would completely be thinking of an option to get out of that relationship… I’d hand those cards in to the police tbh!! Xx

That fact that he double bagged it & hid it at the bottom of the trash is suspicious af. Ethier he slept with her or hurt her👀 id definitely return her stuff to the police station & if they ask where you found it tell them the truth. Woman always find out the truth I swear men are dumb!!!

@Monét I clearly watch too much true crime because my brain instantly went to murder 😅 very suspicious.

@Stacey 🇵🇸 thank you hun, I think regardless of what he says tonight I’m going to tell him to stay at his mums for a bit because I know the fact that he hid it means I’m not going to believe whatever story he tells me 😩

@Alex my mind always goes to murder thanks to Dexter 😂😂

@Becky I just did some more digging and remembered I have his Uber app logged in on my old phone. At 4am he took an Uber to a B&B from a street not near any clubs and then he took another Uber at 9:39 the next morning to a xx road with a few different b&bs on it so it and then no more Ubers after that which means his car was on that last road with all the b&bs and kind of hints that he didn’t stay at the b&b they booked with his friends maybe

Do you think he is capable of cheating?

@Becky then she exposes her husbands murder and the whole thing explodes

I agree with the comments saying his explanation will be everything! Make sure you go in there giving him the benefit of the doubt though. Assuming he’s guilty when he’s not can ruin the relationship just as much as if he actually is

PLS KEEP US UPDATED 💀👀

Sorry this is happening to you but if that was my husband he would be out the door …. Clearly hinding stuff

PLS GIVE US AN UPDATE!! But I’m so sorry he’s being an arsehole to you. Definitely do something about, watch his body language and facial expressions especially the eyes

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I'm with others on here! He double bagged a personal item belonging to a woman and binned it...that doesn't scream 'cheating' to me, it seems like he is throwing away evidence (very sloppily!!). Honestly not sure which way I'd turn with this one but if you don't want him anymore/ you can't trust him then turn it into police and say exactly where you found it

Why tf is he out parting while ur home with the baby?! Sounds like he’s having a life crisis and can’t handle being a man. I don’t know if someone like that can change smh try to work it out if you can. If he’s unwilling to change his way leave. Only more pain in the future for you and your LO

Just an update for everyone…he’s admired to chatting up some girl, taking her number and also dancing with her. Apparently she was grinding on him but nothing further. I spoke to the girl and she had the same story and also spoke to his friends who told me the same thing he did. The wallet was from an Uber home where the Uber driver asked if it was anyone’s in the Uber and he said it was his hoping to find money in it…guess it just brought him a lot of karma as he got no money and it meant I was able to find out what happened

*admitted

He said he hid the wallet because he knew I was suspicious because of the glitter and didn’t want to give me a reason to ask further questions

I’ve told him I need space and he’s booked a b&b for the weekend until he starts work on Monday

Omg girl, that’s so bad! At least him and his friends and that girl all told you the truth that’s the main thing. But the fact he let that girl grind on him and him taking her number is a big red flag!! I hope he’s realised that he could’ve lost a good one there especially the mother of his child!!

So glad you know the truth!!

Sorry but from experience it’s very easy to throw a story together and get your friends to agree with you. You cannot trust this man at all! Keep yourself safe and have some space. Good luck x

So the purse wasn't the girls he was dancing with?

But what about the ubers at 4am then again at 9.39? I wouldn't trust he's telling the truth. Whys he getting another womens number and grinding that not being faithful in my eyes