Baby name

Hi ladies! My husband and I finally agreed on the name Riley for our baby girl, we both love it, but I stupidly told people the name when they asked šŸ˜‚ some family members love it, some hate it. Everyone has an opinion! What do we think?
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Aww love it. My mother in law doesnā€™t like our name for baby boy and I wish I hadnā€™t told her!! She suggested a name that was deffo not our taste though so I wouldnā€™t take other peopleā€™s opinions on board, if you love it go for it! I still am

@Chelsea thank you! I think it just puts doubt in your mind like is this actually a ridiculous name and I donā€™t realise šŸ˜‚

We haven't told anyone the name we've picked as we were worried about this exact thing! Ignore them!

@Loren thank you!

Itā€™s a lovely name. Just stick to what you like and donā€™t worry about anyone else. We havenā€™t found out the gender and havenā€™t told anyone the names we like as I know there are too many opinions in our families!

@Laura thanks and yes I agree! I definitely would be keeping it to myself in hindsight.

Not going to vote as I'm very neutral on it, Riley was my maiden name so it's a surname to me and surnames as forenames isn't for me but I definitely don't hate it! A family friend named her little boy Riley to name him after my parents, that was sweet. If you love it then just go for it!

Its your baby, name her what you love šŸ’•šŸ’•

If we were having a little girl this is what weā€™d have named her! I LOVE it! People always have an opinion and when sheā€™s here they wonā€™t care. We are refraining from telling people our little ones name again this time round. Our first was Ralph šŸ˜ƒ

@Becca aw I like Ralph! Bit different! Yes Iā€™m learning itā€™s probably better not to as everyone has to give their opinion and it made me doubt myself a bit. You wonder if itā€™s actually a nice name or just baby hormones šŸ˜‚

My sister and her husband named my niece Riley and I think it's lovely šŸ’•

@Nikki thank you!

How annoying! I wish people would keep opinions to themselves šŸ˜‚ weā€™re sharing at our baby shower but weā€™re so set on the name now, if anyone says something negative, Iā€™m not really bothered! I think itā€™s a beautiful name. Well known but not super popular

And all that matters is that you guys love it tbh! It is sometimes hard not to let opinions bother you. I would be upset if someone said they didnā€™t like my babyā€™s name šŸ˜…

@Jess thank you! We do love the name but I think I let people get in my head a bit. Iā€™m not usually one to let other peopleā€™s opinions bother me but it also made me doubt myself. Like is it really a nice name or is baby brain clouding my judgement šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚

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People will never all like the name you chose just the same as thereā€™s names you didnā€™t chose because you donā€™t like them. Unfortunately some people donā€™t realise how hurtful it is and how to keep their opinions to themselves. Itā€™s a lovely name and itā€™s your chosen name so no opinions matter. My cousins little one has the same name but spelled Rylae xx

@Hayley thank you! Think my hormones got the best of me a bit as well šŸ˜‚

We have a baby girl called Riley, Iā€™m forever getting compliments on it šŸ„°

@Beth thank you thatā€™s reassuring to know!

LOVE Riley, itā€™s second on my list!

@Sophie good to know we arenā€™t the only ones then! šŸ˜‚ have you thought what would be a good middle name to go with it? Thatā€™s where Iā€™m a bit stuck

@Natalie we have some middle names picked which are family namesā€¦ Kay, June, or Maree. Iā€™m not too fussed if it doesnā€™t sound perfect. I think a one syllable middle name would sound the best with Riley!

@Sophie same! We were thinking Kate or Grace for a middle name. Doesnā€™t need to be OTT šŸ˜Š just a nice, simple name!

Donā€™t let folk get in your head. We had Riley on our shortlist for our little girl too but went with a name that everyone had opinions on. My mum was sending me names constantly and disagreeing with everything I sent - I ended up telling her to wind her neck in basically and it wasnā€™t her baby to name it was mine and I LOVE our girls name. Ours is a feminine spelling of a typically masculine name but I absolutely love it and she suits it so much. Your baby will become the name you give them, so much so that all the ā€œsuggestionsā€ we were sent wouldnā€™t fit her at all ! People have even said it since like sheā€™s her name through and through! Your baby your choice gal, donā€™t do what I did and let people try influence you. If you pick something for the sake of other people youā€™ll never really feel like you named her. I kinda liked some names my mum sent, but because she sent them I had to dismiss them, because I didnā€™t think of them myself Iā€™d never have felt like it was my choice!

@Megan thanks for this! Itā€™s true everyone will have opinions, and it can be hard to ignore sometimes and ya let people get into your head whether you mean to or not. But we raise our own kids, so we make the decisions regarding them and their names!

I think it sounds sweet. But honestly, the only thing that matters is the two of YOU liking it! Never mind what everyone else thinks - you canā€™t please everyone šŸ˜Š I personally feel like ideally as long as the name canā€™t easily be misconstrued, so what! ā£ļø

@Emily thank you! So true

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