A Murderous rage fills me

So currently 37 weeks pregnant and started harvesting colostrum. Had 10 syringes full in the freezer I was super super proud of and felt really relaxed knowing I had them as my first baby had a really tough time feeding initially in hospital. Husband got food out the freezer and accidentally took out the bag of syringes and forgot about them. I found the bag thawed on the kitchen counter and now they’ve all got to go in the bin 😭 He has said sorry but doesn’t understand why I’m upset as “you can just make more anyway”

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Also baby is set to be here via elective C-section in 6 days!

I'd feel the same! I had loads in our freezer and would go mad as I had to use it in the middle of the night when baby wouldn't latch and was jaundiced so needed milk. I don't think some men understand how much work it can be for some women to express colostrum if they can, and that it's not as simple as making more. Maybe explain to him that you understand it was an accident but you've worked hard to get it and it's not as simple as making more as many women can't express it or get minimal amounts so he needs to appreciate that.

I am so sorry. I think I would literally fight him. I had a NICU baby and my colostrum helped him graduate after only 5 days. I would’ve m*rdered my bd.

Aaaaaah so nerve racking I’ll be so out of control from the anger 😡

*Cut to the montage for my episode of SNAPPED* 🥴🥹😩🤣 no for real I’d be unglued! So sorry mama!

The neglect! He happen to trip into a bath tub with a toaster officer I don’t know how!!!

I’m so sorry!!!

Ive got 350 syringes, if my partner did that I think I’d fucking howl

Unforgivable IMO 💀

I really really just wish I could give you a hug. And I want to say that I am more, WAYYY more sorry than I can even put into words for you. Sending love, mama. 🤍

Thanks everyone! It took days to even get a few drops, watching so many videos, reading tutorial, baths, massage, perseverance and so many sessions hand expressing to get those 10 1ml syringes. It felt like such a massive accomplishment and as silly as it may sound I felt so proud and so relaxed knowing I had them so to throw them in the bin felt gut wrenching and honestly I was absolutely devastated! My partner just doesn’t understand although he has apologised and I know he didn’t mean to, he thinks I’m over reacting due to my hormones which just upset me more as it completely dismissed my feelings. Glad to see others understand!

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