Idk, I don’t recall butterflies with my husband (we’ve been together for 21yrs and married 11yrs); def more comfortable and like home like you said. I feel like butterflies would be if the person was overly good looking and then I’d say that’s a little more lust-like and wouldn’t last in the long run!
I don't think you have to get butterflies. If he feels like home I think that says a lot already.
As long as there is attraction I wouldn't mind.
Pretty sure butterflies is just anxiety.
Idk, I don’t recall butterflies with my husband (we’ve been together for 21yrs and married 11yrs); def more comfortable and like home like you said. I feel like butterflies would be if the person was overly good looking and then I’d say that’s a little more lust-like and wouldn’t last in the long run!