Abortion?
Make sure you have a good support system
two under two is stressful i will say. it is rewarding but it’s very overwhelming some days. if you have a good support system it can work. but if you’re already feeling like you’re having a hard time pregnancy will be rough. and so will postpartum the second time. i don’t regret having my kids so close and i wouldn’t change it. but i do also have to acknowledge the sacrifices i have to make even still. i hope you are in a state you’re able to have a choice 🩷🩷
Do you have a supportive partner? I hear that is helpful
I also have a nearly 11 month old and I am 10 weeks pregnant. Felt the same, was so scared, especially as I had a really bad birth with my first. But actually I have that age gap with my sister and its so nice. And now I can’t wait to have another. I know it’ll be hard but having a baby in general is. I will say I am very tired during this first trimester but I know it’ll pass
I found out I was pregnant with my second when my first was 8 months old, the pregnancy was harder then the birth and looking after 2 under 2 personally I found it much easier with the second as your already in mum mode. My little ones are now 4 and 2 and best of friends I’m so happy they have a small age gap 💗
What do you want to do?