Omg help
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You got this. Once you have baby , you won’t be able to imagine your life without the second. And your first and second the bond will be amazing being so close in age
Abortion?
Make sure you have a good support system
two under two is stressful i will say. it is rewarding but it’s very overwhelming some days. if you have a good support system it can work. but if you’re already feeling like you’re having a hard time pregnancy will be rough. and so will postpartum the second time. i don’t regret having my kids so close and i wouldn’t change it. but i do also have to acknowledge the sacrifices i have to make even still. i hope you are in a state you’re able to have a choice 🩷🩷
Do you have a supportive partner? I hear that is helpful
I also have a nearly 11 month old and I am 10 weeks pregnant. Felt the same, was so scared, especially as I had a really bad birth with my first. But actually I have that age gap with my sister and its so nice. And now I can’t wait to have another. I know it’ll be hard but having a baby in general is. I will say I am very tired during this first trimester but I know it’ll pass
I found out I was pregnant with my second when my first was 8 months old, the pregnancy was harder then the birth and looking after 2 under 2 personally I found it much easier with the second as your already in mum mode. My little ones are now 4 and 2 and best of friends I’m so happy they have a small age gap 💗
What do you want to do?