lonely.

anyone else lost all friends since having a child..? literally none of my friends want to hang out with me anymore because of my daughter and this makes me really sad although my daughter’s father is such a amazing dad he always watches her if I want to hang out with friends and all of mine make excuses despite my hubby watching her some weekends If I want to go out. and some weekends I watch her if he wants to hang with his friends we take turns and for us time we ask family. but it hurts me that women always ghost their mother friends just because they have a child. men never go through this when they have kids because often men assume there are fathers that don’t ever be with their children. but mothers always automatically lose friends 🥲 I have only 2 friends that aren’t moms that always ask me to hang with them and never tell me to leave my daughter they always include her but all my other friends ghosted me and haven’t texted me since despite me reaching out and making time for them I’m just so alone. but I feel so alone because I have 0 mom friends and it honestly sucks being the only “ friend “ with a child because you have no one to talk to and relate to anymore and everyone sees you as a mother but not as a human or friend anymore.