Maybe not?

I wonder that, too. Mine was diagnosed with autism but doesn't do many of the stereotypical things kids on the spectrum do, like lines things up, toe walking, avoid eye contact (at least not always). But she does others things, but those I think can be attributed to developmental delays (she's a preemie). But it's called being on the spectrum for a reason. I dont want to be someone in denial if she is, but I do sometimes wonder if the things she can't do (yet) have more to do with her being a preemie. Time will tell 🤷‍♀️

That’s what my HV said when I had concerns at his two year review- which I totally agree with! Mine doesn’t do lots of typical autistic things either, he doesn’t line things up, tiptoe walk - But he has just been diagnosed!

The thing that actually determines if it’s autism or just a developmental phase is the frequency & intensity in which the diagnostic criteria is met, not just that you are able to check off boxes of possible signs.

Absolutely possible. But that’s why it’s called a spectrum. There are so many different ways autism manifests. I’ve learned not to worry too much about the label as much as asking what does my child need help with and going from there.

Diagnosis does not require All criteria to be met. So your kid might not line things up, mine doesn’t. But yes, it can be normal toddler behaviour or delayed development.

There's different levels

Yes, it’s possible. I don’t have a child diagnosed with autism, but with what I’ve seen with others, a lot of it has to do with the frequency. For example, almost all 2 year olds have tantrums, sometimes numerous tantrums a day. That’s developmentally expected. But autistic tantrums/meltdowns happen much more frequently, are more intense/long, and continue at older ages that would be developmentally typical. Or for toe walking, if a toddler walks on their tiptoes for a few seconds a day, it’s probably not a sign of autism, but if they’re constantly walking on tiptoes, then it’s a stronger sign. Things like that. It’s good to remember that not all autistic individuals show every sign. If your child is showing a lot of signs, it would be best to get her evaluated.