How do I know if I hate sex or just not like my partner anymore?
I have a 6 month old and am currently pregnant with my second and I can’t stand having sex or being intimate with my partner in any way. Like we maybe have sex twice a month and literally last night he was kissing me and then tried to stick his toung in my mouth and I turned my head away and he chased my face with his toung sticking out trying to put it in my mouth and I’m thinking this is so gross the thought of kissing him with toung absolutely grosses me out and makes me wanna throw up. Most of the time I turn my face away when he kisses me. I feel like we’re just friends that share a baby and sleep next to each other. What should I do about this?
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@Stacy yes but the thought of being intimate with him grosses me out
@Allie ahhh well I’d chalk it up to hormones and I hope it gets better for you!
It’s probably hormones. I was exactly the same when I was pregnant. I envied women who had such a roaring sex drive and wanted to be all over their partner constantly 😂
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Give yourself some grace and patience. It took like a year and a half for me to get my sex drive back. Having a baby is hard on your body and physically and mentally draining. Something that has been helping tho is for both of you to try to add more non-sexual touch/contact with each other during the day-hugs, grabbing his hand, or touching his back. And communicating maybe not that ur grossed out by him lol but that you feel like just friends and want to be more intimate again.