WWYD?

I used to have 2 best friends we were super close always there for each other. (3 years ago) when I got pregnant (accidentally) I told one of my friends, asked her not to tell anyone, and then later on found out someone she knew brought it up to my BIL so I confronted her about telling people and ultimately that ended our friendship. Then the other friend just kinda took her side and they completely cut me out and I assume told all my other friends what was going on which ended up creating a really isolating time from everyone I really knew. Now 3 years later I still think about it and have been debating on messaging the two girls to kinda clear the air and maybe make myself get over it? Idk if I should message them though or leave it be and try to move on.

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If you’re missing them then I say send the message! Worst that could happen is they aren’t interested in talking again 🤷‍♀️ But at least you tried & won’t regret not reaching out

@Ayla tbh I don’t really miss them or wanna hang out with them again but I know I didn’t approach the situation very calmly so I do kinda wanna apologize I just don’t know if it would be weird

Nah, I can't be friends with people who already showed their true colors.

If anyone should apologize it should be the big mouth friend. You told her something and asked that it stay between yall then she violated that. If you didn't just approach her and discuss it then maybe you could apologize for the way you chose to approach it (I probably wouldn't). As for that other friend... if what you're saying is how it went down and she just chose the side of that girl then she isn't both of your friends. She's her friend and was yours by default.

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