Feeling like crap
When I was pregnant my BD decided one day ( out the blue) he wanted to just be friends. It broke my heart. We were all lovey dovey and very affectionate. Now, he doesn’t show me any affection. He comes to see the baby and we still laugh and talk but when he leaves he won’t even hug me. It hurts me sooo bad. He swears I didn’t do anything wrong and that he just needs space. But I don’t understand how he can just put ALL those feelings for me aside. I leaned in to hug him and he kissed the baby (I was holding the baby). I’m in so many tears I don’t know how to fix us. I love him still so much 😢😢💔
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He gives me hope by saying “if we are meant to be it’ll happen.”
then ask him not to say that, like tell him how you feel and how things like that make you feel and ask him to treat it like just a friendship. then again, he isn't exactly wrong. just give it time and give him space and focus on your baby 🩷
He’s very wrong for telling you that, it’s a very cliche cop out. Do you know if he is seeing someone else?
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you give him space and respect his wishes instead of trying to "fix" yalls relationship that doesn't exist anymore. that's really all there is to it. it sucks and it hurts and I hate it for you, but if you love him you've gotta let him go.