Fussy ALL THE TIME

My one month is always crying and squirming. This is my second born and I can’t help but feel like a failure. My first born never cried. He was always so content. I always say he’s just happy to be on earth with us but my second born seems to always be upset. Idk what to do. I cry all the time with her because Idk what to do. She is fed, changed, burped. Even when I hold her she seems upset and it makes me feel like a bad mom that I can’t comfort her :( she only seems ok when she’s sleeping. Idk maybe she has other health issues I’m missing?

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Literally same!!!!!!! I feel like im missing something she so badly wants but idk what it is…. Its very depressing

My newborn is like that a lot too…for him he has a lot of gas issues. But also he’s colic and just so fussy and we don’t fully understand why. He has good and bad days. It could be one of a million things and it could be one thing today and another tomorrow. So basically this isn’t very helpful lol other than to say I’m with you and it actually seems like you’re a very good mom! Trying all the things to help your baby. When you touch your baby’s stomach when they’re being fussy, do they respond by tightening their tummy and kicking their legs? Or maybe they’re overtired?

I feel like I’m having the opposite. My first cried a lot and I constantly held her allllll day. My second doesn’t cry that much and I don’t even hold him as much. But it could change since it’s still early to tell

@Unique very depressing :( I hope we see the light soon and things get better for us

@Cindy is your first happy and healthy now lol I guess I’m just hoping there’s light at the end of the tunnel

@Kaitlyn thank you! Well she seems to like when I put her over my shoulder so idk if the pressure feels better? It seems like she’s pushing? :(

@Incognito it could be gas then! We’ve been trying to do belly massages and been giving our baby Mylicon and it seems to be helping!

I was crying for a whole month when my baby didn't want me and I couldn't calm him 😭 then popped a binky in his mouth he's been loving me ever since 😂 and I brought back swaddling only at night. My LO gets cranky during the day wrapped up even body carying sometimes they miss the feeling of being inside and u just walking around. Give yourself grace an take some fresh air to relax yourself your doing just fine she new here just adjusting

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