Feeling emotional

Hi everyone I’m posting incognito as I feel so guilty and awful for thinking this but having had my second daughter 3months ago I’ve just these past two weeks really started to miss our little family life before her don’t get me wrong I love her to bits and I wouldn’t change her for the world but I miss the relationship and routine me and my older daughter (2.5yrs) had before her we were such a great little duo did so much together had so many friends and since my second all of that seems to have gone away I feel like I’m so grumpy with her and her with me I know this will all die down eventually and we’ll all find our new normal I just wanted to put my feelings out there in hopes someone might feel the same?! Xx
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My older son had a complete personality transplant after his brother came along, but now at nearly 3 months in I’m seeing glimmers of his old self returning which makes me very happy. It will never be as it was but hopefully in time it’ll be even better. I’m particularly looking forward to the age when they will start to play together 🥰

Thankyou for sharing! My older daughter too seems to have changed completely since we brought her sister home I feel like I’m mourning the people we used to be! You’re totally right that it will never be the same but yes it will be even better thankyou! 💕

I also have a 2.5 year old daughter and just welcomed our second daughter this august. She hates the car, will scream whenever she’s in it so all the things I used to do with my oldest have mostly stopped. It’s been so hard making our lives even smaller and we have to compromise sometimes (the baby just has to have a stressful car day) but honestly in a couple of months she’ll have settled in the car just like her big sister did and we can start to do things again. Sending u loads of love and prayers, I know exactly what you’re feeling!! Xxx

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