I have a play yard around his bed with some toys in it. He generally plays then goes to his bed to fall asleep. Usually around 8. But lately he’s been staying up. I live in an rv though, I can’t risk him opening the door in the middle of the night, that’s why he’s got the play yard around his bed.
My son also throws a tantrum and will bang his head. I think it’s just fomo. No advice but you’re not alone with it😂