Mine also sleeps independently and won’t sleep if I’m in the room. I went to a birthday party recently and had no idea how to get him down. If I were at a hotel I’d have to put him down and literally go sit in the bathroom until he fell asleep or get him in the car and do a car nap 😭 maybe a walk w the stroller.
With hotels we always spend a little extra for get the suits so there is the bedroom and the sitting area are separated. at my parents my daughter sleeps in the pack and play in the guest room or basement
Can he not sleep in a travel cot wherever you are ? Maybe bring some portable black out blinds x