I would do whatever time is after nap. That gives you all morning to prep for the party
My home party is going to start at 2/3 and I’m going to wrap it up by like 4/5
Almost impossible to attend the party that starts at 11 as she usually tired and ready to go to sleep at 12. Definitely after nap
My son nap time is around 11-12, so I'm thinking around 2-3 because of nap time