I would calculate him the ā hourly wageā as in = mat leave per day/24 hours, and tell him the job doesnāt pay that well so he can do it if heās so smartā¦ or offer him few pennies for looking after your LO for x hoursā¦ based in UK tho, not sure if relevant for you
@Radka This is exactly what I was going to say! If he wants to put it like that, tell him you want a raise or youāre going on strikeš Iād also inform him that youāre now charging for the other free labor youāve been proving. You now charge for every load of laundry, every meal, and every time you clean up after him. Since heās paying you for childcare, he needs to be paying you for all household duties as wellš„°
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in the same situation, commenting to come back when you get responses!!š