Sons dad moving away
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Can yalls son not visit him & vice versa?
@Laila it's not always the easiest. Plus it unfair. We already have to wear a lot of hats as the primary parent. Then to think the other parent gets to freely roam around. DO whatever they like. Work wherever, date whomever. It's not fair. Then you have be the one to make time for them to see the other parent. Now it's even more difficult with visitation being states away. It's exhausting mentally, emotionally, and physically
@Laila My son and I are in Ohio. His dad is going to Florida. In a car it’s 11ish hours depending where in Florida, I don’t get on planes. So no it wouldn’t be often.
@Kiyanna agreed.
Understood. But how do yall feel about split custody? 6 months with dad 6 months with mom?
@Laila that scares me. He's saying he wants to move to japan... he's not responsible. Our son is only 1. I'd rather mop the ocean then let my son move to Japan for six months. If he was local yes I'm all for it
@Laila absolutely not
Make sure you go file for custody before he goes so a plan can be written out. You may have to get over the no flying thing.
Does he do anything with your son? My ex left for another province and is threatening to stay there.... though it isnt bothering me as he is doing very little to help support our son or does anything with him when he was here. It hurts yes but in the long run is it better?
Oh then i would be following him
@Stephanie Louis-Juste why would I follow him? My family, friends and work are in Ohio. He’s leaving just because. He has no reason to other than he just wants to. I’m not up rooting me and my son’s life for him. When he’s the one making this choice . Absolutely not lol.
@Monique he keeps him every other weekend and visits throughout the week. In the long run for me probably lol but not my son.
@Stephanie Louis-Juste to another state ?? If so, you just like me lmao. I was like time to get my passport lmao
@Mia (MAMAMIA) 😂😂😂cause i need help lmaoo
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@Kiyanna my bd does that as well that woukd be too much of a loss for us
@Kiyanna understandable. You guys will be able to figure something out.
When i see stuff like this makes me thinks your bd does not want to be a parent im sorry if that sounds rude but a father should never want to be that far away from their child!
@Noelle I’m getting the vibe unfortunately
I up and left NYC to move back home to Michigan. This is exactly how my daughter’s dad felt. Said I was taking his kid and now that I’m a solo parent and doing everything by myself, he tells me it’s my fault. 🙃 Meanwhile, he hasn’t done anything to help out fr.
@Vinecia I think is all about how much effort the parent makes like if its super far maybe try to see the child once a month and make sure child has everything monetary wise as well but some people move and think thats it they done being a parent
@Noelle oh for sure! I’m the one having to take her to the city to see him and his family. When I’m in town, I have to take her to his job. It’s all aggy and too much. I stopped caring if he’s involved or not. It’s more work when he is active.
@Stephanie Louis-Juste exactly he gone have to restrain me
I just found out mine is leaving the country or planning to and in the process. (Long term.) I agree it isn't fair