Guilt

I have gallstones got diagnosed last monday and everytime i eat it hurts bad so i hardly eat ive lost 21 pounds in those 2 weeks and i have no help its just me and my son my hubby will be back next month. My sons 2 and recently been so cranky and i feel like thats my fault the past few days ive been getting irritated quickly and would raise my voice at him and put him in his room while hes having a tantrum so i can just take a breath. I feel so guilty i feel like a horrible mom i love him so much but hes just been so needy very very recently and he’ll have a tantrum if he doesnt have my attention i do give him attention but not when i just ate some food :/ ill get surgery when my hubby gets back and ill have help then i just feel guilty im never like this to my baby but i just cant i really just cant right now when im in pain

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I feel for you mama ! What were your symptoms ?

It’s the best alternative for now. Don’t feel bad, just make sure that in his room there are no risks to his safety that’s all. Get well soon I pray the surgery goes well.

I work with 2-3 year olds on a daily, maybe you could tell him you are sick and sometimes need a moment. Sometimes this age is a lot but some kids like to help you. My 2 year olds can clean up their plates pick up toys some are already potty trained depending on where they are at

@Janae nausea for sure my abdomen hurts and bloats up after i eat even a little and my body is real sore but i think thats from losing weight rapidly and lately ive been having anxiety attacks randomly 😅

@mirriam yes! His room is baby proofed and all his toys are safe so i can leave him in his room at ease i just hate leaving him in there when i know he wants to be out but im just hurting real bad right now :/

I had my gallbladder removed if you wanna chat ☺️

You are irritable and anxious because you're not eating enough hon. Is there any foods that won't set off an attack? My sister had gallstones too.

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