How to have closure ?

The love of my life came back into my life during a highly sad time. We called and talked everyday, he sent me gifts from abroad and to my kids as well. He shown me love I never experienced in my life. That was when we were teenagers and now in adulthood. He took care of me like no one before. He was telling me that he’s madly in love with me and he wanted for us to get married after everything’s settled. And he proved it again and again. But he just withdrew. We had a two years long distance « relationship » and he just left me without closure. Just told me he needs to sort his life out and doesn’t want to make me lose my time. I’m heartbroken. I feel used a second time (when we were teenagers we stayed together 6 years and he withdrew a month before our wedding). I feel like he knew all along what he was doing and just dropped the ball when I asked about what’s next for us. How to have closure? I don’t want to talk to him and keep the last bit of dignity I have left.

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Sounds like he keeps building you up just to let you down, twice—huge red flag. He also sounds very flaky. As hard it might be (due to your feelings), I would stop talking to him. The closure is in how he keeps breaking his promises to you. Actions speak louder than words. ❤️

For your own peace, don't speak to him again. I'd be blocking him and deleting his number so that I'm not tempted to make contact.

@Samira 😔 I feel so stupid. Thank you your message helps open my eyes. I’m not crazy ..

@Rebecca I have stopped talking to him a month ago. I’m so hurt. Thank you.

Plus, he begged me not to block him eve not to change my phone number because one day, when his life’s in order, he’ll come back for me.. I told him that I don’t believe him anymore but there’s a part of me that was waiting until now. I’m done.

I once watched a video that said the right people make time for you. There's no such thing as it was the wrong timing with a good person. This guy is not your person. The right person doesn't play games and makes time for you, all the time! ❤️

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