In laws suck

Okay so obviously there’s so much shit to say so I’m gonna make it short. I have 2 under 2. In laws don’t seem to give a fuck They don’t message to see how kids are doing or if they can see them nothing. My MIL has held my youngest baby 2 times and she’s. 4 months old. Anyways long story short we didn’t get invited to thanksgiving. Would u go to their Xmas dinner? We’re apparently invited to it. But I don’t want to go! They don’t care about the kids any other day. And on thanksgiving they had their own turkey dinner with the 6 of them and didn’t invite us. My kids are her only grandchildren . I’m so hurt by them and I wanna tell them all off, but mt hubby won’t let me. My hubby aunt and grandma passed away and he asked me not to go to the funeral bcuz he doesn’t want drama. So I didn’t go. Cuz yeah they would say one stupid thing and of course my defense will be up. Anyways what would u do

Show your support

I mean to keep the peace in hubbys eyes I wouldn’t do Christmas as their likely to say something then to? So you would defend yourself then to? This not mentioning anything to them makes each social occasion awkward/drama either way

I would go to the Xmas dinner and make it very short. Make an appearance just to look good is what I would do, but be secretly cringing and plan an escape after dinner

Nope stay away. If they don’t care the other 364 days why should Christmas Day be any different. Also if you were technically “banned” from funerals then why would your husband want you to spend a special day like Xmas mixing you and his family if he thinks there could be drama?!?!

I haven’t talked to my MIL in close to a year because she’s a horrible narcissist that’s a very toxic person so ima tell you - don’t let anyone control you! You’re an adult and if you don’t want to go? Simply don’t go! You don’t have to. You are allowed to do what you desire. Talk to your husband about it.

@Josie I don’t know what my husband is thinking but he won’t let me say anything lmao They’re very yellow bellied people, talk behind ur back never to ur face and if I were to say something they would all cry and my hubby doesn’t want that.

MY problem is that if I don’t go , I don’t want my kids going etheir

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