Am I an asshole?

How would you feel if your SO decided to drive 4 hours away from home to take someone home!? At 12am!!! Because the person decided to come up here with a female and she left him stranded!! The persons mom tells the guy to call my fiancé and now he’s stuck having to drive 4 hours away late at night!! And then has to drive back alone!!! Am I an asshole for being pissed off!?😤
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I’m guessing that’s a part of his job, if not I would definitely be upset.

@Sarah nope, he literally had just got off work and the person called. He’s still gone as we speak 😤 I’m so pisses off it’s ridiculous, I couldn’t even sleep 🤦🏽‍♀️ I hate that people are ok with inconveniencing someone’s life because they did something stupid!! And I hate that my fiancé is such a yes man! There’s no way I would’ve did that!! That boys mom would’ve been coming to get him!!

Why did the mom tell him to call your fiancé is it his son?

Yeah my ex was a yes man. He was doing all this stuff for other people. But nobody would ever come through for him. Story doesn’t make sense as to why the mom couldn’t just pick him up. But you’re not wrong for how you’re feeling.

@Chaquanna no it’s his cousin, his cousin got stranded here because he came down here with a chick and the chick left him🤦🏽‍♀️ and my fiancé hasn’t heard from this side of the family for years! And now all of a sudden this is the favor yall ask of him! Yall don’t even call him on a regular basis! Like please gtfo! Really pissed me off! Now he has to miss work!🤦🏽‍♀️

@Sarah I was wondering why his mom couldn’t pick him up too! Like tf! Why tf you calling my fiancé all of a sudden! He hasn’t heard from yall in years!!!

In that case yes I would be very pissed

I'd be pissed too, but not all of that would be directed at the cousin. Your partner CHOSE to answer the phone at 12am, he CHOSE to say yes, he CHOSE to drive 8 hours all up to take his cousin home. His cousin is an idiot and I'd be pissed at him too, obviously.

@Hannah oh yea I’m definitely pissed off at both of them! Smh especially at the cousin because his cousin wasn’t even supposed to be here! And his cousin is 37 years old!! Too old to be leaning on a female for anything!! Then end up stranded!!! Just slow!🤦🏽‍♀️

Agreed, cousin is an idiot lol

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