What do you think in this situation?

So long story short, my husband’s brother and his parents weren’t in talking terms (because mil claims her son was mean and rude to her, didn’t even invite fil to their wedding etc.,) for more than 3 years and 2.5 years ago in-laws decided to rewrite such that all the inheritance goes to my Husband and they made a big deal telling how everything will come to my husband etc., so after 3 years mil runs into my sil and his wife, they invited to the new home they bought this summer. She immediately goes to their spends over several hours and acts like everything is normal. Wtf? Mil made a big deal about how His son cut her off and you take a fucking big step to rewrite the will and get the expectations of my husband to get all the property but you just go to ur other sons home as soon as you get invited. My worry is what his other son going to think of her when he comes to know she rewrote the will?I would assume at some Point she is going to rewrite the will such that both sons inherit, Isn’t it wrong to raise the expectation on my husband? She is so extreme all the time.

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It's her son though. She's a mum. Moment her son needs her/wants her the mother will jump for them It's nature. With the will, even if told you getting this and than you shouldn't hope you do. As things can change, wills change, money issues can arise ect. My ex has been told many occasions he's in his aunties and nans will to get aload of properties and money. But he does expect it and carries on as if it won't come to him. As people change their minds and things happen ect. This wouldn't be something that bothers me personally.

Correct, why rewrite the will first place and tell us all about it. Get my husband to video call every week as she is feeling lonely without her other son. She is selfish monster in my opinion.

Because at the time it hurt her and wanted to make sure things didn't go to him. If it mends between them I even hope she rewrites the will and puts both in it. Every week is nice to keep communication with parents, hard to do it as we all busy with ourselves but they lonely too. And was hurting, when your cut off from a lived one it hurts. I get your upset but it's nothing to be over stress about. Sounds very bitter your opinion. But you know her more. But from what I read. It's just a mother hurting

Is it a problem that she wanted to video chat with him once a week? We literally video chat my MIL almost daily as long as she’s feeling up to it. Sounds like you’re bitter at what you might not gain as a result of your MIL & BIL making amends. Why are you personally even worried about stuff that isn’t directly yours even if you’re married your husband would inherit it not you. It also sounds like you think she’s a “monster” for rewriting the will and telling your husband everything he would be getting with the chance of it changing

Sounds like she changed the will because she was hurt and wanted to make a big gesture. Times past and her son's back in her life, sounds like a happy ending to me? Honestly don't see the problem here.

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