Venting

Lately I’ve felt nothing but rage towards my bd. He’s a selfish jack ass. When I got pregnant all did was tell me that he did want another kid and then he moved away. I couldn’t help but felt abandoned. Our son is now a year old and he still has baby been in his life but he wants to preach of great of a dad he is. All he does to “support” our son is give me 600 a month for his half of day care. Everything else has fallen on me. I went to the entire pregnancy myself, I gave birth alone. Almost bled out from an emergency c section. And I’ve been raising our son alone. This man literally is living a single free life in another state and had the audacity to tell me that his life is harder and he’s responsible for 4 kids. Sending money here and there is not being a dad. I have to struggle, living paycheck to paycheck to support my son that he abandoned and he’s just living life. He’s always trying to play the victim. But he chose to leave. He chose to abandon his son. He chose to not support or be apart of his kid life. I’ve tried to be an understanding baby mother but I’m getting fed up with his selfishness.

Show your support

You didn’t have this child on your own! The child is his too, and so is the responsibility. If he doesn’t want to be present, you can’t force him—but he MUST provide the financial support you and your child need. Hire a lawyer to ensure he is legally required to pay you a set amount monthly. If he doesn’t comply, contact the Child Support Enforcement Office. Legally compel him to fulfill his obligation. You don’t have to carry this burden alone. Carrying your child, giving birth, and taking on the majority of their care and education is already more than enough. Stand up for your rights—you and your child deserve it!

Single mamas need to stop negotiating things with irresponsible Dads. They need to let the justice decide and if he doesn’t pay what’s his responsibility go to jail or pay an expensive fee.

If you cannot afford a good lawyer, reach out to the Child Support Office in your state. These offices are designed to help parents establish, enforce, and collect child support payments without the need for a private attorney. Additionally, many states offer Legal Aid Services that provide free or low-cost legal assistance for those with limited financial resources. You can start by searching for your state’s Child Support Enforcement agency online or visiting LawHelp.org to find legal aid services in your area. They can guide you through the process and ensure your rights and your child’s needs are protected.

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