Irritable Baby

I can't help but get sad when I see other moms posting their LOs doing fun things. I feel like I can't ever do anything with my son because he gets so upset and cries so loud which makes my already terrible anxiety worse...I know people only post the good times, I just am so defeated 😔
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You are not alone 🫶 Your struggles are real, and your feelings are completely legitimate. Your love for your son is evident in how much you care about his experiences and your ability to support him.

I’m in the same boat. We are in the process of trying to see why he’s been so fussy but I just want to see him happy.

My baby cried at a restaurant on Sunday …. It seemed like forever . Luckily it was loud in there and no one seemed disturbed . It’s definitely stressful as a parent . People definitely post only the high points

Try babywearing!!

I’m with you

@Jada Baier i do 🙃

@Kayla what does that process look like? What things are you trying to weed out?

@Anaya you're killing it mama 🫶

I’m sorry, You’re not alone. When I was pregnant I thought after 1 month when I felt it was safe to bring her out we’d do more. 3 months in and I’m just thankful if we don’t scream cry in the car seat going for a target pickup. It can be so draining and yes makes the anxiety worse. Baby wearing also just makes mine more fussy (I saw your response to a comment). Do you think it could be trapped Gas or reflux? Something contributing to physical discomfort? Not to add to your anxiety, but I breastfeed and reducing then eliminating dairy has been hard on me but made a difference with her physical comfort. Not drastically but a NOTICEABLE difference with less screaming, crying, discomfort when laid down or picked up, etc.

@Christina i do think there is occasionally reflux, but he never spits up. I've mentioned to doctors but they aren't concerned. I pump and bottle feed, but do supplement with formula. I know any of these things can contribute to has and/or reflux. I've also eliminated dairy. When he good, he's great, when he's not, he's really not 😔 it's very difficult to look beyond the rough times and enjoy the good times because I never know what to expect

Sounds like you’re doing everything you can. It’s hard to exhaust all options and still deal with the unpredictability, I’m sorry Mama. This season is temporary but I understand that doesn’t make it any easier to enjoy. It’s so rough when you can’t take any more of the scream crying and don’t know how to fix it. I hope more peaceful days are ahead soon.

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