Just a rant

I’m a SAHM my partner works. He covers bills, I get food stamps and cover all food. If I sell anything of mine or my sons I get necessities shampoo, conditioner, toothpaste, diaper cream etc. I don’t grab anything until it’s absolutely necessary like I cut open my toothpaste and use it all before grabbing more with his money. Well we cloth diaper because it’s cheaper, but we’re expecting baby #2 so I’m trying to get more. I asked for $25 to get 16 diapers and he yelled at me saying I need to be more responsible with money. I have worked side hustle jobs, sold my things, etc to buy everything I have gotten, and he won’t help with $25 for OUR child. It’s just draining I feel like he doesn’t want to help at all because I want cloth so it should be me paying for them. Jokes on him if we did disposable it would cost him a small fortune. He doesn’t get me anything for holidays or birthdays, I have to beg to go out to eat for birthdays. It’s not like I ask for things. I don’t use his money on nothing. He’s even fighting me on Christmas for our older because he doesn’t want to spend money. It’s pissing me off. I realize he’s the only one working but I have NO money I can’t do anything unless he offers or I sell my belongings or my sons. Like wtf.

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If that's how he is when baby is born and a couple months. I would find a job and let him pay for day care since he doesn't see how hard it is. When he have to pay for daycare he will see that he have to spend more than what you're asking for.

@Kimmy Issue is I can’t send my kids to daycare.. I’m terrified of something happening I don’t even let people babysit… He also doesn’t want me to get a job unless it’s WFH so I can watch the kids and work to have my own money.

Well get a work from home job I wouldn't want to depend on someone like that. Sounds like he's not someone you can depend on. Having to sell you and your son's belongings sounds wrong.

Do you homeschool or plan to home school?

Yeah this is abuse

U still staying there is a choice im startin to read more of these and its makin a lot of sense that you value yourself low that’s why you let other people do it! Once you value yourself at a certain level you will never take a discount period! Stand up

@Aryyy How did I talk low of myself? Where am I suppose to go? Live in my car with a 1yo till CPS takes him?

@Kimmy I’ve applied to pushing 100 WFH jobs and have gotten not a single call back. I do plan to homeschool

No ma’am. But it’s ALWAYS A WAY! Never a dead end literally gotta do whatever you gotta do and sometimes that involves things you don’t like but to be happy is worth it!

A shelter. Most wfh jobs aren’t going to work unless you have childcare

This is terrible

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