It’s not unreasonable at all. There’s a reason everyone discourages co-sleeping and that’s because it’s super dangerous. I was the same way and there’s time I’d put her to sleep in the crib and would wake up with her next to me which was even worse because I wasn’t aware to be more careful so I told my husband to either sleep in the other room or on the couch if he can’t deal or just suck it up because we’re both parents and I don’t enjoy waking up 90 times either but it is what it is. Follow your instinct girl. I stand my ground when it comes to my baby girl no matter how unreasonable or ridiculous something sounds.
My boyfriend works a lot and is always tired cause he does pool renovations. I had the same issue with my daughter. When she was only a couple of weeks old she was so fussy in her bassinet so when she was a month old. I started co sleeping with her and my boyfriend understood because she was so fussy and once she is in the middle of us she stops and able to sleep
@Sara thank you! I understand he’s tired but I am too. I just would rather be tired and know my son is safe in his crib. I will definitely tell him this!
I had this with my ex he would fall asleep on the sofa with our daughter when she was that age. You can co sleep & be as careful as u can people do but i did watch a video on facebook of a britsh mum and she had lost there 3 month old as there baby was asleep on dad on the sofa and his face had rolled into the dads arm pit and the baby sadly suffocatted. It really struck a cord with me and absolutley terrified me this would happen and i used to freak out every time i would walk into the lounge and see them asleep together. Odds are small but the risk is there so either way even if ur partner doesnt agree with u he should respect ur concern and not do it.