Struggling with sleep

Is anyone else really still struggling with sleep, basically no structure at night time at all? My LG naps 11-12:30/1 every day, bed is at 7pm give or take. But we have the most unpredictable night sleep every night and honestly it’s slowly killing me off. She’ll either be up crying on and off until 1/2am (like tonight) Wake up at 3/4 am and take ages to go back to sleep (is still offered milk at night) Will wake up at 5/5:30 am and then that’s it for the day. Then you’ll have a random day of her waking in the night for 20 minutes and then sleeping till 7/8am! Never once since she’s turned 1 has she slept through the night. I’m really struggling with it because I’m working and it’s only me that does the nights with her (partner works very long hours so seems unfair to wake him when he only gets about 6 hours sleep a night anyway) I just don’t want to go down the path of sleep training because I just don’t want to, don’t feel like it’s a natural thing to do with your child so I’m just wondering if there’s other things I can do / add into her routine or environment that will help. 😣
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I’m in the same boat…full time teacher, up for the day at 5:30, but my little one consistently wakes up at least twice per night, sometimes 3 or 4 times. We nurse to sleep starting around 7:30 and she’s down around 9, but will wake up in the night and cry until I come and nurse her to sleep again. I’ve tried letting her wait it out and she’s only put herself back to sleep a handful of times. I can probably count on one hand how many times she’s slept through the night in her life, most of those actually when we’re on vacation oddly enough. Hubby says he wants to help at night, but he’s a heavy sleeper so it’s more effort to wake him up than it is for me to just get her back to sleep myself. But I feel you, I am so drained bc I don’t have a second of time off, day or night.

My little girl was born June 25th (June baby not July baby) but I am exactly in the same boat! She has been awful for the last 3 months. I honestly just don’t know what to do anymore!!!

The second wake window is too long so they’re probably over tired. It should be 5 hrs max so can you try doing the nap a bit later? My boy naps 12-1:30/2pm and goes to sleep at 6:30/7pm

My LG is an August 23 baby and we have been in the same bout since 10 months, she use to sleep through. She’s so recently started asking for milk 2/3 times a night which she hasn’t done since 6 months 🤷🏻‍♀️ Im thinking the second wake window is too long for my LG too it’s about 6 hours currently but she gets so tired in the morning @Sophie what is your days schedule like please?

@Rebekah it’s really hard isn’t it, I thought the sleep deprivation days would be long gone by now!

@Sophie do you think so? The problem we’ve had before is if she sleeps past 1:30 she’s a nightmare to go to bed at night. So it makes it really hard! x

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