I had horrendously bad shoulder and lower back pains I went to a couple of massages and it’s gotten so much better it’s still there but at least I can move without making old lady noises.
Not to discourage you but it gets worse with more kids lol BUT I feel you!! My body was in BAD shape after I had my first but started working out regularly after about 15m of giving birth (I just couldn’t get myself to do it before that and had put on a lot of weight) and just knew that working out will definitely make me feel better and I did. Also massages are a really way to release those tense muscles so try that! Your neck and back area hurts the most coz of the constant carrying baby , sitting in the breastfeeding/pumping position so many times a day so it’s natural but your body does eventually recover when you stop carrying baby around so much so I wanna say after about 2-3yrs lol! Also happy birthday to the little guy!! And congrats to you for making it through the first year 🎉
Definitely relate. My little girl is nearly 8 months and my back feels like it’s been ripped to shreds. I wake up with back pain, but it does feel better after stretching/massage. Think it’s just the norm after all the stress your body has gone through!
I feel this 100%