in Australia
Struggling with the thought of single motherhood
Even though I am practically a single mother within a relationship are there any positive experiences or words of encouragement to actually leaving a deadbeat partner/father, I’m stuck convincing myself I’m the problem and I should stick it out
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My daughter doesn’t have a father so it’s just her and I. Yes some days can be hard. But I wouldn’t change it for anything. I grew up with an mentality unstable father and it has affected me so much. Believe me when I say trying to stick it out and the kids growing up in an unhappy home can do more damage then good.
The best thing I did for myself and the kids was as leave the partner, otherwise there would be fighting, I’m glad I did it earlier on so the children wouldn’t be affected, it was hard at first not knowing if I made the right choice but my elders they excited to stay with his dad and see his grandparents, he understand and I very happy with the situation.