Family keep calling my baby Gringo
I really hate them using this as a nickname because its derogatory. My baby is very light in Skin tone which is not an issue what so ever. My side of family there are all sorts of mixtures and tones and all are beautiful and accepted. Everyone on my husband side are obsessed about our baby skin tone and always commenting on it, it's kind of unhealthy (baby brain I can't find the word I want to use). Neither side are even Caucasian nor Hispanic or anything. No one will listen about it and refuse to understand that it's not a nice word to use whether applicable or not.
U are the parent, not them. You just have to tell whoever it is in a serious tone. If u say it jokingly, they will continue. But be straight forward and say; pls do not call him or her that name, we don't want it nor accept it. Your partner should also be on thesame page 👍🏼🙏🏼🤞🏼.