Rant/ do I have a right to be this upset

So my LO is 4 weeks old dad has gone back to work as he earns the most money. He has been working away so I have been on my own for the past 4 nights. He got back today at 9pm I had run him a bath and cooked him dinner ready for when he got in. I was feeding the baby as she is bf and she was sick so I asked him to help me clean up he stormed off and got in the bath. So I got her changed and tried to settle her I was waiting for him to come back out and take over after the bath but he didn’t. So have just been to check he is fast asleep in bed I appreciate he has being working away and must be tired however I’ve been struggling to get little one asleep and have just managed to get her down at 11pm now I need to get in the bath plus tidy up. Sorry for the rant just very upset at the moment and tired myself just want to know if Im being silly or have a right to be a little upset at this. Don’t get me wrong he’s an amazing dad and does everything for us but this one thing has annoyed me.
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You have all the right to be upset, it’s true is working so as you (24h daily) And be alone for 4 days with the baby isn’t easy and you deserve some times off

If my husband did that I would have gone into the bedroom n smacked him with a pillow n told him to get his lazy ass out of bed. There is no job in this world more exhausting then being a 24/7 mum. At work he'll get breaks and chill time u don't n even when baby is asleep u gotta do other stuff n we barely get time to eat most days so for u to run him a bath make him dinner then ask for a tiny bit of help n he storms off gets a bath n goes to bed, I think I would have killed my husband. If anything u r under reacting x

I know exactly how you feel and you have every right to be upset! my partner stayed awake longer than me by about an hour as was his choice to play on his pc. he comes in and wakes me up, then the baby wakes and MYSELF has to feed her and I get no help! then tomorrow he will be sleeping in all day then he’s at work for the next three nights.. so you have every right to be upset! people seem to think just because the men go to work they don’t have to help, and we sit on our arses all day playing with the baby

@Natasha glad it’s not just me like I’m thankful he’s working to support us however I’d appreciate the help

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