Am I wrong for thinking like this..
My partner has a trust fund with 1.2M in it. The house we live in is in trust, paid for by the trust. We are engaged and have a 2.5 year old daughter and he has 2 other kids to another woman. We’ve been together 3.5 years. He kept mentioning what will happen if he dies and how much the kids will inherit, never did he once mention me. I challenged him on this as if he died i would have nowhere to live with my daughter and stepson who lives with us full time. He said he got his lawyer to change his will so that the house will go to me until the kids are 18, however can’t show me proof of this. The kids will automatically get the rest of the money and all of his assets. Something about this seems a bit unfair? As in a normal marriage I thought men generally take care of their wife but I don’t feel very secure, it seems the kids have more security than me.
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It’s wild that he expects you to raise his son until he’s 18 but doesn’t really plan to leave you anything but the house. Are the stepson’s mother’s rights terminated? If not, and you haven’t adopted him, he wouldn’t be your responsibility anyway but your fiancé definitely sounds selfish.
Definitely sounds odd tbh
Honestly in marriage my personal opinion is that all assets, income and tasks should be shared. It’s wild that he thinks that if something happens to him you should get kicked out when the kids turn 18.