I just make sure my kids get a good variety of foods that are high in iron and vitamins whether that's purees or hidden in other foods and I don't limit milk
We have to put our dog in 'food jail' when our little guy is eating or he will give everything to her. She knows how to beg too well lol. We just put her on the other side of the baby gate until he is done eating. This has helped a lot with food dropping for us
My doctor told me purees are just fine for now while he is growing teeth and learning more things purees are still food