Hurting

I didn’t sign up for this! I’m seriously struggling with the this breakup! It’s been a while since I cried over my bd.. he hasn’t exactly done anything but I’m just hurting so bad! I just wished he cared to fight for our relationship! I’m so heartbroken yall. I know people will say it gets better with time and stay active and focus on your LO but I’m trying and it’s not helping! What do I do now! 💔
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On a random day you’ll realize your over it. Each day you’re closer to that random day.. keep going

You are right! But how do you even make it to that day! What do you do on the days in between when you are having to communicate on the phone and in person and see them at least twice a week for the sake of your child! I think that’s what’s so unusual to me with this break up

On the days he has your LO go to the gym or go for a run , its easy to let your mind overflow with anger and emotions so see if you can get that out in a healthy way with exercise and eventually itll just get easier

I’m in the same boat, we broke up and I found out I was pregnant the day after! he’s not once tried to fight for the relationship. I’m still pregnant and finding it difficult at the thought of having to inevitably have contact with him. as someone who’s going through it I only do think the only thing that truly helps is time, don’t hold it all in let yourself get upset and emotional if you need to but remember to pick yourself back up after and one day it will suddenly feel better (I’m not there yet myself) but know the day will come. Stay at busy as you can and find things you enjoy doing to take your mind off it x

Thankyou @Radvile this is the advice I’d give to anyone else but taking it and putting it into action isn’t so easy.

@Abs I’m so sorry! I hope you have an amazing support system that you can lean on! Especially during the pregnancy! I also hope, if it’s what you want, that he has a change of heart and does the best by you and baby 🙏

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