After he has the information and stuff then See what he does with it.....we have to quit getting mad at dudes that don't even know the issue....we all know guys are slow unfortunately lol so we have to train them....now when he has the information and the tools but yet still is no help or even trying then yes that's the time to indeed be upset. Regardless though your feelings are indeed valid love ❤️
Stop paying all the bills and stop over working yourself I bet you’ll have his attention then
Unfortunately dear heart most guys don't know when we are stressed ect....most Guys are not emotionally in toned like that. They are more focused on being financially stable and being the "protector" however that looks for them.....have you tried to sit and have a conversation with him.....express your feelings. Once you express how you feel.. give him the tools in how to help...if you know exactly what it is. You have to train a guy