It’s not even remotely your fault mama. You did your best by not bringing her to thanksgiving! Good thing you wiped her off, but hopefully as the manager of a restaurant they follow food safety protocols and wash their hands! as much as we want to keep our babies safe they also do need to be exposed to germs so they can develop anti bodies. Just don’t worry now, what’s done is done and all you can do is pay attention now to if she develops symptoms of anything. Remember to look out for shortness of breath by watching for if the skin around the ribs gets sucked in, and check temps. Not sure how old your baby is so a fever might be more crucial depending on if she is really young or not. Everything will be okay as long as mommy is watching out for baby 🫶🏻
It’s hard not to feel anxiety about a new baby but your baby will definitely be fine and soon they’ll be crawling around putting all kinds of things off the floor in their mouth, and they’ll survive that too
I've been there with the strangers being invasive and me being anxious after. More than likely she'll be good, especially since you wiped so quickly after.
You didn't fail your baby 💜 if it happens again just try to set a boundary no matter how scared or anxious you feel