My husband doesn’t either. I can’t stand him now that I’m pregnant because of it and now I just opted to stay to myself and go thru my own emotions alone. 🥲 There’s no point in explaining to anyone what you feel like if they’re not going to understand instead they’re going to blame you and get mad. You’ll feel better soon enough.
My husband just shrugged it off but encouraged me to get therapy and it really helped. But he never blamed me once!
Yes mine was but that’s not ok. Even if every husband is mean doesn’t mean it’s right So speak up, tell him what to do. Where u need help. U need to release all that tension.. don’t hold ur anger in or u will get sick
They feel they have so much power over u when ur pregnant bc ur in such a vulnerable position…. Don’t be afraid of him. Speak up. Dont be afraid to tell him where u need help. Expect no less than queen treatment bc u will resent him if he doesn’t do everything u want him to do and be…. He can suck it up until the baby is 1yo He needs to help with baby , house, cooking and bills .. and give u lots of love
My husband was like that until I told him completely how it made me feel. I wrote everything down every thought and emotion on my notes lol bc I wasn’t going to be able to talk to him without crying and he read it and cried himself a little because he had not realized what I was for real going though. Sometimes it’s hard for him too I know it’s a lot to handle especially right now postpartum but he has a lot of patience for me. From time to time he snaps but we get through it because this is something new for both of us
My ex never understood the hormones of me being pregnant or after pregnancy. Even after someone else talked to him about it.