Weaning is the worst part of my day

Please help me - I am so stressed by weaning. EVERY meal is refused. EVERY single meal causes tears and whinging and food being thrown on the floor. My baby won't sit still or even look in one place for a second let alone focus on a spoonful of food - I've managed successfully about 5 spoonfuls of food whilst she was watching TV until she realised what I was doing. She actually does enjoy the food sometimes but doesn't appear even remotely interested in food. She doesn't reach for my food, watch me eating, nothing... She will eat snacks over food - happily munches on biscuits and crisps but this is a habit I really want to get out of. I'm so stressed. I've just cried my eyes out because I spend all this time making food, and cleaning up after meals she hasn't even eaten. She barely drinks any milk and has never been much of a milk drinker (for reference she has 5 bottles in a 24 hour period which she usually has about 5oz max and usually it's a fight to get even 1oz in her) and we were meant to be weaning for her reflux problems... I've contacted HV and dietician and had minimal help. Please tell me am I alone in this?