Starting life as a single mum
Hello everyone,
I'm just looking for some advice. My fiancée turned around to me two days ago and told me he is in love with another woman. This is the second time he has done it in the space of year, but it hurts more this time because our daughter of 18 months is at that stage where she runs around shouting Daddy and looking for him.
I'm just wondering if any other mummies can offer advice on how best to support little ones at this time?
He is still in the house and will be for some time until he finds somewhere to live, but my concern is that he's going to drag his heels because he has everything here for him.
I'm a complete emotional wreck and don't know where to start moving forward.
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Just want to say that I feel for you. This situation is very common nowadays unfortunately. At least he told you the truth instead of cheating on you and bringing you an std which is even more common in the present times… Sending you love 🧡
I'm so sorry you're going through this. But I would set up boundaries and give him a firm move out date once he has a place. He can't have the best of both worlds. And I would explain to little one that daddy is moving out but she'll still see him and that daddy still loves her. She won't understand until the changes are in effect probably. Just be there for her, it'll be alright ❤️