Scorpio man being manipulative to try and get me back
I could be delusional but I think my child’s father is trying to manipulate me into getting back with him.. or at least trying to make me jealous because I only want to offer a friendship. He makes advances at me and when I set a boundary he gets upset and will not speak to me, at times he apologises when I ask him not to hit on me but he’s taking it a step further by lying and making up relationships to get a reaction out of me.
I have been trying so hard to be kind and build a friendship for our child that we’re having in March but he makes the situation difficult for me when he doesn’t get his way. I have invested time so our child can have an environment with parents that get along and can have a functional friendship but when I reject him, he says we probably shouldn’t be friends either.
It is actually so draining and makes me very uncomfortable and it breaks my heart that I’m trying to create a safe space that I didn’t have growing for our child.
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@J.S. Jaees you are absolutely right.. could I please message you, I could use some advice
@Erica I'm just seeing this but of course you can message me girl we can video chat if you want 🖤
I feel like it took me way to long in life to understand that men who say we shouldn't be friends are telling me that they don't find worth in knowing me outside of sex. They will linger and manipulate for as long as they possibly can, if you finally get too harsh with the rejection, they get violent or they try to break you. He'll use the fact that you just wanna have two parents for your baby. He'll mistreat the baby if you move on with someone else. I say, listen to him. He is refusing to be your friend and just trying to wear you down or catch you vulnerable. This man is not going to be what you want him to be for your baby. Even if he gets a new girlfriend, he'll make up lies and keep you in drama. I would create distance 🖤