One huge shift that changed our marriage

We did not start our relationship with a full toolbox of communication skills. Our past is full of messy arguments and tears and wondering if our love story was supposed to make it. And here we are not perfect, but really, really proud of the relationship we’re modeling for our kids. And it hasn’t just happened. It’s been intentional. It has been work. It has been vulnerability. It has been addressing resentment. It has been understanding our differences without expecting the other person to change. In all of that has only been made possible because of curiosity instead of assumptions. We are constantly changing as individuals, and it makes sense that our partner and relationship is changing too. I see a lot of people get too comfortable in their patterns, even the bad patterns, that they just continue those cycles with assumptions of how things will go. I think the magic is in the wonder. The curiosity. The embracing the truth that no one knows everything and to connect and be a team we have to always be open to learning and shifting. if you are leading with more assumptions, then curiosity lately, OK. Every day is a good day to make some changes that will make your relationship and life better. If you know you would get there faster and more happily with support, that’s where I come in to help.