It’s inverted when he sits down (imagine an outy belly button) so there’s nothing there to put his finger on unfortunately 😟. Spoken to the doctor and they said eventually the fatty tissue around there will disappear and it will sit normally. I’m just concerned that won’t happen before he starts school and I don’t want him to be struggling to do a poo on his own there. He’s at pre school at the moment but the odd accident isn’t an issue as many kids are still potty training.
I'm not in the same position but perhaps putting something like a urinal in place to catch his wee in maybe might help? X
I don’t think it tucks down by itself at this age, my little boy holds his finger on his so it points down when he’s sat on the toilet but if he didn’t wee would go everywhere