Child’s father found out I was saving on the side. Am I wrong?

Long story short I never trusted him whenever it comes to securing my future. We had a bad break up before and I was called broke, whenever I had money he would claim he’s running low and ask for help. When I’m running low he would start comparing me. He had left we in debt and credit went low because he left me and my child without help. I gave him a second chance because he was helping a lot with our daughter. I made sure to open a savings for me and never touch it unless it’s an emergency. Even though I was saving I would consider myself broke until I get paid. He wanted help to get something for his car because he’s out of work. He gets money every month from his father’s passing. So I know he has income. I told him I didn’t have any money but we can wait until Friday when I get paid from my other job. Tell me why this man called my bank and check my transactions. He found out I had transferred money to my savings and broke up with me. Called me a lying ass but bitch, evil and so on.

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That’s rude and disgusting behavior. It’s selfish of him to think after what he did you should go all in. And also him calling your bank and then telling him anything is insane. You aren’t wrong because you’re securing a future from someone that proved unreliable. He could have waited but his needs come first so instead he called your bank. Booo

Thank the heavens and seriously leave him tf alone sis. Seriously go and don't look back. It's even good he's the one whoended it. Why should you go broke over him ?? Men love it when we are at their mercy sis. You tried twice which was very loving of you. Don't go back. And how tf is he able to access your bank though??

@Lav that’s what I’m saying why did the bank let him do that. Also run for real. He did exactly what you were preparing for. Thank heavens you did because he left because he did something that left a deep scar and the. Proceeded to do it again. I’m not getting it

He doesn’t deserve a thing. Keep your money!

@Lav I had once gave him my card to get me things from outside. He had called the number on the card. Input the card number and pin to listen to my transactions

Wow serious red flags from this guy

How did the bank let him I’d definitely be complaining to them it’s a breach of personal information. However sounds like you’re better out anyways.

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