How to be a better mum

Hi this might be a strange post but I feel like I have started to get a bit lazy and very irritated very quick my daughter and I use to be out all the time or doing indoor activities and crafts if the weather wasn’t great but now I feel like if slipped and just have no motivation and feel very lonely I have no one to do things with and I feel like I’m just getting bored with doing the same things all the time hence not wanting to do it at the moment we all have colds so having pyjama days but even that I use to force myself to do something to keep my daughter entertained
I don’t drive yet so hard to go to new places and there’s only so many times I can go to a park without feeling like pulling my own hair out

Just want some suggestions on what people to or how to force myself out of this hole

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Feeling a little burnt out like this is a sign that you need to take some more care of YOU! I don’t know how old your baby is but your child will be happy if you’re happy! It’s totally normal to get in a little rut and need some extra me- focused time. I recommend primping and having your child/ baby with you while you do a lot of stuff for yourself. Give him/ her a book or just have them watch you as you do your nails, face mask, hair, etc! I know taking care of how I look externally always helps me feel so much more put-together :) Internally as well. I hope this helps!!

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will definitely try this my little one is two end of this month she’s very girly likes her nails done might turn the house into a little pamper party for the both of us xx

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